PROOF U R EVERYTHING

Why are you still looking for proof outside yourself?

A message from the universe.
A text from someone who ghosted you.
Your mom finally saying she’s proud.

You're still waiting for someone else to declare you worthy...
as if their permission is the missing piece.

You look for proof in the people who couldn’t love you the way you needed:

The parent who never really tried to understand how you were really doing.
The partner who disappeared the second you got hard to love.
The friend who couldn’t handle you when you were honest instead of entertaining.

You ask yourself:

Why did they only reach out when they needed something?
Why did they act confused when I asked for basic respect?
Why did they call me “too sensitive” when I finally spoke up?

But maybe the better question is:

Why are you letting these people live in your mind rent free. Who cares.

Here’s what’s true

You’re a 1 in 4 trillion miracle.
The odds of you being here are almost impossible lol.

Your parents had to meet- at the exact moment they did.
One sperm out of 250 million had to reach one egg- and had to survive.

Before that: generations of people had to survive war, heartbreak, famine, and miracles… for you to even exist right now.

You’re not a mistake.
You’re not an accident.

You are living, breathing proof of the impossible.

So NO.

You don’t need to prove yourself.
You don’t need someone to come back and apologize for the grief they caused you.
You don’t need to wait for closure, or permission, or validation.

Existence wouldn’t be what it’s supposed to be without you.